How long would you take to accept a rejection ?
How long would you pretend to close your eyes and behave like you weren’t vulnerable , while you actually were ?!
How long would you take to learn that life ain’t a cakewalk ?
How long would you take to know that people walk in and walk out of our lives, just at the right moment !
A human tendency, actually two –
#1 To be always loved and wanted by the close ones
#2 To never give up on hoping, that they love and want you !
Both, I feel, are equally draining out emotionally …..
You want something and you don’t get it ; you give unconditionally with an expectation to get it back in the same measure ; you keep hoping for a miracle to happen …..and finally, accepting, that it won’t work out !
The fear of rejection ; negative and draining out for some, positive and uplifting for others…
Depends how we take it ; for there is always a prelude to better stories written in life…… Fall down, bite the dust ; get up, shrug the pain ; look around, look inside ; what we want always resides inside us…. Not in the people we love or want
They are just means to make us to come to terms with harsh realities of life…. God has his own ways to make us learn everything we should in this small life of ours
Make peace with yourself, think positively and find a way….. Where there is a will, there is a way, goes the saying…
Cry out if you feel like ! Crying is a therapy .
Dig your head into to the pillow, punch the walls, bang your fists on the table….. Do whatever you feel like to make you feel better
It is always fine to let go ourselves sometimes, how long can we hold on with the misery within ourself ?!
Talk to someone if that makes you feel lighter, abuse, curse, as much as you want, get angry with yourself ….. But just take care not to hurt anyone in the process ; angst, tears, shouting , will actually make you feel better….
And if you are the silent type , try writing out something ! Penning down your fears and expectations, your pain, will make you feel free….
And once you are done venting out, you won’t feel like doing it again !! Believe me, your heart will feel better, your mind and body more in control 😀
Don’t take life too seriously, no one anyways gets out of it alive 😃
Tears, sighs and curses would make you feel more hopeless !
So move on to smiles, happiness and openness ….
Just accept the fact, life is a process and we are all learners all our life….. Let them go, welcome the new with open arms 😊
While in despair, remind yourself each single day, two things –
WHATEVER HAPPENED WAS FOR GOOD and
I LOVE MYSELF …….and you’ll be at peace forever 😁
For, those who learn to digest the failures, are always the winners ….
Agree or not ?